Psychotherapy for
Individuals and Relationships

There are countless entry points to therapy. Some arrive to seek deeper understanding in their lives, while others hope to navigate painful threads in their relationships and inner worlds. Perhaps above all, many come to pursue some form of relief, growth, or change.

As a therapist with a focus on developmental trauma, I believe that early life experiences and ongoing structural contexts immensely inform our relationship to ourselves and each other. I hold this framework in combination with my background in somatic psychotherapy, which considers the ways our bodies and nervous systems relate to our emotions and experiences.

There is no one way to relate to the past, embody our feelings, or find healing. In therapy, we find a way for you together. Your emotions, your pain, and your hopes and desires are all powerful forces we can make room for, listen to, and explore together. My role is to hold consistent curiosity, rigor, and care throughout the process of your own self-discovery.

  • Complex trauma (CPTSD)

  • Dissociation

  • Belonging

  • Self esteem and self worth

  • Guilt and shame

  • Perfectionism

  • Grief and loss

  • Explorations of anger

  • Queer and trans community dynamics

  • Chronic illness and disability

  • Loneliness and isolation

  • Learning to access, tolerate, and celebrate joy

My clinical focus includes:

I often work with people who are navigating:

  • Anxiety, depression and mood disorders

  • Identity exploration and expression

  • Relationship dynamics: with oneself, family of origin, friends, romantic/sexual partners

  • Gender identity and gender dysphoria

  • Substance use – recovery models and harm reduction models

  • Experiences of addiction, mental illness, and conflict in families and relationships

  • Feeling different or ‘other’

  • Boundary navigations

  • Internalized oppression

  • Sense of purpose

  • Spirituality

Who I work with:

I work with people whose lives range across many different experiences and positionalities. I approach the therapeutic relationship with an attention to the ways power impacts us and informs our identities. Structural forces such as racial, cultural, gendered, and class-based oppression shape our world, our lives, and our relationships – including the therapeutic relationship. Ultimately, I believe that my job is to be curious and engaged with you about how you make meaning of the world, how you move in it, and how we can best hold space for these experiences together.

Some of the people I work with are:

  • Queer, gay, lesbian, bisexual people, and all those in the LGBTQIA2S+ community

  • Trans, nonbinary, intersex, and gender variant people

  • People of varying racial and ethnic groups

  • People navigating diaspora and immigrant experience

  • Chronically ill and disabled people

  • Neurodivergent people

  • Straight and cisgender people

  • Sex workers

  • Those in the BDSM/kink community

  • Those in polyamorous, non-monogamous, and open relationship configurations

  • Trauma survivors, including childhood sexual abuse survivors

  • Artists, activists, community workers, and those working in helping professions and the service industry

Contact me

You’re welcome to give me a call at (510) 800-8258 or reach out via email at alli.yates@mindfulcenter.org to set up a free, 20-minute consultation with me. I will usually get back to you within 48 hours.

I am currently offering tele-health sessions and seeing clients in-office in Berkeley, CA and following COVID-19 safety protocols.